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Dream Come True
Chuck
and Judy Koskovich met at UNM and have been together ever since.
By Mary Conrad
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Married
50 years, Judy Hubbard Koskovich, ’55 BSED, is still
thrilled by her storybook romance with her husband, Chuck,
’54 BBA.
A senior, he was
quarterback of the Lobo football team; a junior, she was the
homecoming queen. They met at his fraternity house. After
Homecoming 1953, Chuck gave Judy his Kappa Sig pin and the
two became a steady couple. Six months later, on a drive back
to Albuquerque from Judy’s hometown of Farmington, New
Mexico, Chuck proposed.
Judy and Chuck
were married in Farmington on November 24, 1954. The wedding
party included several fellow Lobos:
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Cleta
Honeyman Downey, ’56 BA, ’70 MA; Barbara
Mitchel Crawford, ’55 BSEd; Bill
Speer, ’52 BA; Anne
Richardson Speer, ’51 BSEd; Chuck’s brother
John; Bob Alber, and Herby Grossman. Afterwards, the wedding couple
made a whirlwind trip to Chuck’s hometown of Canton, Ohio, for
a traditional Slavic reception—Judy says she “learned
to polka real fast!”
Despite
the “dreaminess” of it all, Judy looks back and thinks
her mother may have been right: waiting until she graduated to get
married might have been a better idea. Judy spent a lot of nights
by herself the following semester, thinking about all the fun in
the sorority house while Chuck traveled for Continental Oil.
Judy graduated in June
1955 and their daughter, Kathy, was born the following October.
In 1956, the trio was sent off to the plains of Lubbock, Texas,
and shortly thereafter to Pampa, Texas, where they learned to fend
off tornadoes and frigid snowstorms. In the summer of 1957 the family
uprooted to Farmington where two little boys, Mark and Bill, joined
their ranks, and they all enjoyed being near their grandparents,
Deb and Wardie Hubbard. After three years in Farmington, there came
the urge to return to Albuquerque where Chuck was first employed
by ACF Industries. Next followed a 20-year career with the US Department
of Energy in the contracts and information management division.
Judy began teaching first
grade for Albuquerque Public Schools in 1960 and their third son,
Greg, was born in 1964. Judy returned to teaching in 1967 and devoted
the next 30 years to a very rewarding and satisfying career for
a total of 33 years in first grade!
The key to keeping a
marriage together for 50 years starts with choosing the right mate,
deep commitment, and agreeing upon the same goals and values, Judy
says. In the Koskoviches’ case, that meant being each other’s
best friend, enjoying their respective families, and working together
to give their children “the best life we could, wanting them
to be happy and good people.”
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have always played an important role in the Koskoviches’
life. A lot of their friends from UNM have “gone and
paid their dues elsewhere, but then come back” to Albuquerque.
A core group of 14 couples—each an original marriage—still
see each other often.
“Our marriages
may not have been roses every day,” says Judy. “But
we fully appreciate how fortunate all of us are.”
Judy
and Chuck both retired in 1996, giving themselves more time
to enjoy their grandchildren, friends, traveling, life, and
each other.
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